tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post353157529880341012..comments2024-03-11T22:31:56.001-07:00Comments on anoobhooti: woman....Renuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-23689690885971747172012-06-14T22:16:34.824-07:002012-06-14T22:16:34.824-07:00Rahul: exactly, but how many people do that, eithe...Rahul: exactly, but how many people do that, either nobody communicates or nobody listens...Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-83559477911952297052012-06-14T09:11:27.131-07:002012-06-14T09:11:27.131-07:00a thoughtful post ..
i believe by talking one can...a thoughtful post ..<br /><br />i believe by talking one can resolve all issues which may arise due to unforeseen reasons!!!rahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08174409488396279949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-62434820588799078682012-06-10T21:00:22.096-07:002012-06-10T21:00:22.096-07:00Ellen: the qualities you have written about, they ...Ellen: the qualities you have written about, they are essential in our life and will bring betterment wherever applied.Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-49153016060680233002012-06-10T04:43:40.330-07:002012-06-10T04:43:40.330-07:00I have come to be familiar with the Indian culture...I have come to be familiar with the Indian culture and tradition in marriage through my acquaintances and friendships with wonderful Indian friends. But it still boggles my mind as to some issues there. Yet I think things will change as the emancipation of the Indian woman evolves or continues to evolve. Until that day it will help everyone concerned to exercise a wee bit more of tolerance, understanding, patience, kindness, consideration, and other fine qualities which would serve as soothing balm to an otherwise sensitive situation.<br /><br />Looking forward to learn more from your next installment. <br /><br />Blessings to you and your loved ones.Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05682310322367124297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-52607526294264231942012-06-09T21:14:17.587-07:002012-06-09T21:14:17.587-07:00Nice post. The change has to come from within and ...Nice post. The change has to come from within and that we can bring by making our children understand.<br /><br />Will wait for the next part.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-67581137472832722652012-06-09T20:45:34.239-07:002012-06-09T20:45:34.239-07:00Manju: Actually manju, I was making a sketch of wh...Manju: Actually manju, I was making a sketch of whole life of a woman, and how one could learn from every stage:)<br /><br />Harman: Marriage is a meeting of two people and In India two families, so everything should be decided by mutual consnt, and if girl is not interested in living with inlaws per se, then she must say so before marriage, after marriage everybody must compromise and bring a solution.<br /><br />It should be our life, our happiness and our dreams.<br /><br />sm: the change is not change if it happens for the fear of law.<br /><br />deeps: Thanks Deep!..where were you, absent for a long time.<br /><br />Reflections:Thanks Nancy!..seeing you after a long time..how are you?Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-82707419441035819202012-06-09T04:33:51.958-07:002012-06-09T04:33:51.958-07:00"families are there forever and we must try t..."families are there forever and we must try to solve the differences.. we cant get rid of them"<br /><br />Couldn't agree more:-).Reflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-56146187743503947912012-06-09T02:17:19.575-07:002012-06-09T02:17:19.575-07:00like life, your posts are great teaching lessons t...like life, your posts are great teaching lessons toodeepshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15296902414799985603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-77728192977709869962012-06-08T11:25:17.336-07:002012-06-08T11:25:17.336-07:00thoughtful post
its not easy to change mindset whe...thoughtful post<br />its not easy to change mindset when there is no fear of law.smhttp://realityviews.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-66523024848504571062012-06-08T10:17:27.994-07:002012-06-08T10:17:27.994-07:00nice post ..to my mind it should be girls decisio...nice post ..to my mind it should be girls decision to live wid in-laws or not n not boys with these kind ...wht did a girl get after marriage did anyone think abt it?<br />where is her happiness ? her dreams ? <br />so parents or in-laws its duty to ask the girl her happiness .. she needs to live her age and time like everyone did when they were young.hamaarethoughts.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13355838190699373168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-85334026987234142642012-06-08T04:51:51.737-07:002012-06-08T04:51:51.737-07:00Looking forward to the next part, Renu. Will comme...Looking forward to the next part, Renu. Will comment after reading the whole story. :)<br /><br />I agree though, that attutudes cannot be changed in a day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-72179612862015661082012-06-07T23:23:10.358-07:002012-06-07T23:23:10.358-07:00Meera: welcome here!.I read that post and wrote my...Meera: welcome here!.I read that post and wrote my views also...<br /><br />Dowry as such is not a bad thing only people's attitude make it so..Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-23043770890651316802012-06-07T23:21:31.303-07:002012-06-07T23:21:31.303-07:00Lkrupa: its a situation everywhere..sad but it is....Lkrupa: its a situation everywhere..sad but it is..<br /><br />Ashok: Thanks!<br /><br />KParthsaarthi:Both sides are adamant and nothing happening:(Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-86005959344373703442012-06-07T17:01:11.917-07:002012-06-07T17:01:11.917-07:00Looking forward to the next part.It is true mindse...Looking forward to the next part.It is true mindsets have not changed for the better as much as we expect.There should be no expectations from the girl's side after the marriage and the girl should also identify herself as part of the new household.The inlaws should also accept her as their own .There should be greater tolerance and kindness on all sidesKParthasarathihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02189924874350906456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-61174950583605202012-06-07T10:27:57.327-07:002012-06-07T10:27:57.327-07:00thoughtful post..thoughtful post..ashokhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07151604896442505084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-33818704217387123582012-06-07T01:57:34.023-07:002012-06-07T01:57:34.023-07:00Thought Provoking! We surely need a change in the ...Thought Provoking! We surely need a change in the attitude & thinking. I find it difficult to accept as to how girls can be indifferent to parents & in laws.L KRUPAAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05444862052732342641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-74394573524882286932012-06-07T01:20:39.315-07:002012-06-07T01:20:39.315-07:00Renu first of all thanks for visiting my blog.
I ...Renu first of all thanks for visiting my blog.<br /><br />I can completely understand the issues that you are raising here. Dowry is something that many parents give in order to get past the issue of not giving their daughters any rights on the parental property. It is actually speaking a woman's personal wealth and is voluntarily given ( like an inheritance) but the way society has turned it into a commercial transaction is very disgusting! I am looking forward to knowing what this girl will do... <br /><br />Meanwhile you may like to read a post I did on the same topic sometime last year. The link is herehttp://meerareflections.blogspot.in/2011/02/bridegroom-bazaar.htmlMeera Sundararajanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15584671517551652378noreply@blogger.com