tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post4859999386118302989..comments2024-03-11T22:31:56.001-07:00Comments on anoobhooti: GIFTSRenuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-17540136807155725442011-11-16T02:56:35.794-08:002011-11-16T02:56:35.794-08:00Well I think yes if you want to continue the trend...Well I think yes if you want to continue the trend of exchanging gifts with a set of people then you have no option but to reciprocate BUT if you really want to stop this formal trend of exchanging gifts even when you don't want it then you have to stop giving as well.I mean you can decline it respectfully.That way they will know you don't want to continue the trend.It is quite possible others also want to stop this but out of shame keep buying and giving gifts.So why don't you take the bold step?Yep definitely you can give gifts to those Only whom you realllyyy want to give.It may not be in diwali alone, any day you can give them.As per needs are concern I think what may liked by all could be a house decor item , a book or a piece of fabric ,anything.<br />CHeck this if you wish - <br />Your Gift Personality<br />Which gift would you like?<br />http://www.3smartcubes.com/pages/tests/gift-personality/gift-personality_instructions.aspTassunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-14949839451873049292011-11-08T02:54:18.145-08:002011-11-08T02:54:18.145-08:00Me and gifts have parted ways since a long time bu...Me and gifts have parted ways since a long time but some birthdays do find me lucky..<br /><br />Gifts ought to be given from the heart if one is giving..but I guess even this act is losing it's meaning..Happy Kittenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14406399936808407736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-21851310081135885322011-11-05T07:21:38.945-07:002011-11-05T07:21:38.945-07:00Namaste:
I remember we use to celebrate Diwali in...Namaste:<br /><br />I remember we use to celebrate Diwali in Trinidad but it was never about gifts (at least i don't recall) it was about community, celebration. I remember we use to line the outside of our house, stairs and walkway with lights, gather with friends, eat and talk long into the night.<br /><br />Maybe i missed something? Gifts?<br />hmmmmm...<br /><br />have a great day.<br />Rhapsody<br />http://twitter.com/rhapsodyphoenixRhapsody Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03520384490148575528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-51778068967939972472011-11-03T21:44:37.393-07:002011-11-03T21:44:37.393-07:00Amrita: You are better off:)..what I dont like per...Amrita: You are better off:)..what I dont like personally is that be it relations or aquaintances or friends, people tend to give gifts acoording to the receipients financial status..like richer the person, better the gift..<br /><br />kanupriya:those criterias are best..I also feel that the gift must represent my choice and way of living...nothing else, neither the status of the recepient,nor the gift he/she gave.Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-24813700857294092782011-11-03T12:54:20.784-07:002011-11-03T12:54:20.784-07:00Oh Gosh!! Such a tough one!! And something i dont ...Oh Gosh!! Such a tough one!! And something i dont relate to much, because i am a bit cut off from gifting culture.. as in i dont receive and i dont need to give any.<br />But then when I do, i do take the effort to reciprocate in the same money value. Other times, it totally depends on my feelings for the person. If i love the person more i go to any extent and make the max effort to get stuff he/she likes. More than amount i feel its the thought that always matters in gifts. I have a simple hand made potrait from a friend of mine, which i cherish to no end... so there you go totally depends. <br />But in more formal relationships, it might get a tad difficult i believe :(Amritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06075910411728252444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-56312607947279268652011-11-03T08:31:18.551-07:002011-11-03T08:31:18.551-07:00Hmmm... True exchanging gifts is indeed a tricky t...Hmmm... True exchanging gifts is indeed a tricky thing. I generally follow two things while giving gifts: 1. give something which will represent me, make the other person remember me and 2. give it out of love, with an open heart and the giving should make me happy :)Kanupriyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08277789753188466023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-58565750804593887322011-11-02T21:50:03.540-07:002011-11-02T21:50:03.540-07:00Bhagyashree:.but I think that things which are nee...Bhagyashree:.but I think that things which are needed, one could buy oneself only, so gift should fill the wants:)<br /><br />sm: thats a fantastic idea:)<br /><br />Rachna: yeah its ideal.<br /><br />Ellen:thanks Ellen!..giving is a pleasure only if its accepted with love, bur if people start thinking in terms of money,it becomes a pain.<br /><br />rama:actually while giving to someone, deciding on the amount to be spent is a big problem.thats what the dilemma is...how much is right? should it be according the occasion, or the status of the person who is giving or taking?<br /><br />A: If all people start thinking like that life would be a bliss.<br /><br />Harman: thats another ideal thing..<br /><br />Sandhya: we are so much alike:)...<br /><br />Arti:thats what I was thinking:)<br /><br />Rakesh Kumar:.in this materialist world, people honour material gifts more than the feelings.<br /><br />Time is one commodity I have in plenty:) so will cetainly visit your blog.<br /><br />Jyothi: me too think so.Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-28219977201180953602011-11-02T21:14:21.047-07:002011-11-02T21:14:21.047-07:00Good Question! I think we should avoid gifts! It&#...Good Question! I think we should avoid gifts! It's such a nightmare deciding what to buy, where to buy, how much to buy for, what will people think, will they like it! Phew! Its like getting a nervous breakdown! Flowers, sweets and love. I think these say a lot and don't cost all that much. :)Jyothihttp://www.randomjuxtapositons.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-84902883614921638172011-11-02T09:12:33.002-07:002011-11-02T09:12:33.002-07:00I think conception of gift is 'out of love and...I think conception of gift is 'out of love and affection' and which is given with free will or voluntarily.<br /><br />So,every gift should be reciprocated<br />primarily with love, honour and considering the situation and occasion.<br /><br />Thanks for a nice post, Renu ji.<br /><br />If find time,please visit my blog.Rakesh Kumarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03472849635889430725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-1759966014211747072011-11-02T06:57:45.353-07:002011-11-02T06:57:45.353-07:00It all depends on your equation with the person in...It all depends on your equation with the person in question. Like if there is someone younger than you, then you can give. And not take from a younger relative and vica versa...Artihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14606566484548310912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-69088617028219572312011-11-02T01:26:40.345-07:002011-11-02T01:26:40.345-07:00I take lot of effort to select gifts for my relati...I take lot of effort to select gifts for my relatives and friends. Just the sake of giving gifts is not acceptable for me. They should use the gift we give, I feel. Otherwise, the money will go to dustbin!<br /><br />Nowadays, I too feel awkward to take gifts. Half the time I don't know what to do with them. I don't like to waste others' money too. So most of the time, I tell people not to give me anything. Their presence is more than enough.Sandhyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06478831923010850316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-62395984946969024112011-11-01T16:21:03.676-07:002011-11-01T16:21:03.676-07:00its more a reciprocal ..
to my mind ...Gifts are b...its more a reciprocal ..<br />to my mind ...Gifts are best if one enjoys and remembers you more often ...as the best gift given.hamaarethoughts.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13355838190699373168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-57261105261952467702011-11-01T11:05:55.827-07:002011-11-01T11:05:55.827-07:00I ask for 'Peace of mind' as gift. No stri...I ask for 'Peace of mind' as gift. No string attached with the gift with no pressure on other party to return anything. Give love and blessings and a small token....Amrithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16023510703283897521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-22085075858648294162011-11-01T01:59:32.515-07:002011-11-01T01:59:32.515-07:00In our community, there is neither giving nor taki...In our community, there is neither giving nor taking of gifts.We give when we we feel like giving , like giving it to somebody we really care for and love them, it doesn't matter whether they give back or not. And as for receiving, we accept without making a fuss, so that the giver feels happy.<br />And it also depends we need not reciprocate every time we receive some gifts, for we know that nobody is going to feel bad, for if a person gives some gift from the heart, he/ she gives it with no expectation.Rama Ananthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962222316822524699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-80032471877519755922011-11-01T00:38:37.751-07:002011-11-01T00:38:37.751-07:00My dear Renu,
Giving is normally not a big proble...My dear Renu,<br /><br />Giving is normally not a big problem with people who know how to give. It's when giving comes from the heart, irregardless of wealth or stature, that giving becomes the true joy and pleasure that it should be. <br /><br />Rest easy, my friend, cos giving to a warm friendly person like you is such a pleasure. I guess that is what your friends are telling you with their gifts from their hearts.<br /><br />Blessings to you and your family.Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05682310322367124297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-41718290238141091182011-11-01T00:20:45.198-07:002011-11-01T00:20:45.198-07:00I give the gifts as a gesture irrespective of whet...I give the gifts as a gesture irrespective of whether the other person reciprocates. These days chocolate boxes or crockery items are safer bets.Rachnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02275266551382931603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-41788536338904624262011-10-31T23:56:48.506-07:002011-10-31T23:56:48.506-07:00nice post
i think if we reject the gift the friend...nice post<br />i think if we reject the gift the friend or family will be upset, thus no option but to accept it or try to politely reject and 2nd is when we plan to give gifts only gift the books or educational CDs and DVds no<br />sweets its silent poisonsmhttp://realityviews.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-39840776788032489362011-10-31T23:53:22.726-07:002011-10-31T23:53:22.726-07:00Tough!! I am always in a quandary about what to gi...Tough!! I am always in a quandary about what to give. I think that what is needed should be given. But then how do we know what the other person wants. Also what we think that a person needs may not always be liked by them.<br />Sorry I am not able to help u on this as I myself am so confused.Bhagyashreehttp://www.bbsearchingself.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com