tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post7391472196359080137..comments2024-03-11T22:31:56.001-07:00Comments on anoobhooti: MarriageRenuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-24669713371312995492018-06-30T02:28:10.361-07:002018-06-30T02:28:10.361-07:00very well said mam'.very well said mam'.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09902656589229797819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-64541789520148204572018-06-25T21:58:21.059-07:002018-06-25T21:58:21.059-07:00Indu chhibber:..yes.and one should try to find a m...Indu chhibber:..yes.and one should try to find a middle ground.<br /><br />JP Joshi:Thanks for such good suggestions ! wish people think about it.<br /><br />Jeevan: Thanks Jeevan!<br /><br />Amrita:I totally agree with you. I too feel that most of time there will be a way out except in extreme situations.Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-5642920500176146522018-06-21T03:21:50.606-07:002018-06-21T03:21:50.606-07:00Marriages are not that simple. Think how I met you...Marriages are not that simple. Think how I met your mother had a theory that one is a reacher and one is a settler. So the sooner these roles are established, the better it is. When one gives the other has to take and vice versa. There is no equality. <br /><br />Some time one partner may have a more social life, more established hobbies, and an independent personality which might not gel well with the other who might be a total hermit. And one might feel they are sacrificing way too much . But if the other partner listens and advices you well, or does something simple as wakes up with you even if he/she doesn’t have to - the thought matters. Again it’s individual choice. Some might feel it’s not good enough, for some it might mean the world. <br /><br />See what works for you and try to make it work. Human will is an immense thing. If we set our heart, we can make anything work, be it a difficult marriage, lest there are unpardonable offences like abuse, extra-maritals or unscrupulous activities.<br /><br />My 2 cents.Amritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06075910411728252444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-86184895656296015102018-06-20T04:24:58.579-07:002018-06-20T04:24:58.579-07:00Well said! Communication is a great tool to solve ...Well said! Communication is a great tool to solve many problems and preventive as well.Jeevanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14063201530500784222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-72016776581538562422018-06-19T21:02:16.253-07:002018-06-19T21:02:16.253-07:00Short and good.
Agree; honest & open communic...Short and good.<br /><br />Agree; honest & open communications and an atmosphere that gives one the confidence that the same will not be used against oneself. It takes time to develop but does so if both parties are interested, slowly at first though; take the first step, don't wait for the other half to start.<br /><br />Me time; my interests; my hobbies are equally important, as our time, we time together.<br /><br />Look at the goodness in each other; focus on them rather than on the irritants; all of us have irritating quirks.<br /><br />Lastly Renu, you hit the nail on the head when you say that it all starts with taking charge of oneself; focus on 'what' is right rather than 'who' is right.J P Joshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08806649492059145583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-91402229162349558282018-06-19T18:19:12.636-07:002018-06-19T18:19:12.636-07:00If a couple has different likes and dislikes then ...If a couple has different likes and dislikes then what you say is the best way to live in harmony.Going further,if a spouse does not fulfill your expectations in one area,just focus on what s/he is doing for you and stem your expectations.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-84276514643768871602018-06-18T21:49:47.927-07:002018-06-18T21:49:47.927-07:00SG: Thanks!SG: Thanks!Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1553143156226303719.post-73718513353518568772018-06-18T18:42:31.638-07:002018-06-18T18:42:31.638-07:00Great suggestions. I would make one more. Don...Great suggestions. I would make one more. Don't go to bed angry.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05790347071764332430noreply@blogger.com