This is a personal problem of my close friend, she is not able to find the solution to it, so I am posting here, may be somebody could tell her what to do.
It relates to her husband, he is always doing what he likes, without giving any consideration of her feelings, like he would welcome many people to their home, and expect her to be very hospitable and do everything for them, though these people may have insulted her and even now dont give her any respect or love, not even to her husband, but whenever they need they suck up to him and he is all theirs.there are some who havent done anything for her her or her family in last 20 years.Even if the need arose, they were not there for them.
She feels very hurt that her husband has no consideration of how she feels, according to her, her feeling should be more important than other people, whether they are his friends or relatives.
What do you think? Should she allow him to trample her sentiments and tolerate it? It hurts her self respect, because there are some in whose house she was totally ignored and treated badly.
If not then whats the solution?
It relates to her husband, he is always doing what he likes, without giving any consideration of her feelings, like he would welcome many people to their home, and expect her to be very hospitable and do everything for them, though these people may have insulted her and even now dont give her any respect or love, not even to her husband, but whenever they need they suck up to him and he is all theirs.there are some who havent done anything for her her or her family in last 20 years.Even if the need arose, they were not there for them.
She feels very hurt that her husband has no consideration of how she feels, according to her, her feeling should be more important than other people, whether they are his friends or relatives.
What do you think? Should she allow him to trample her sentiments and tolerate it? It hurts her self respect, because there are some in whose house she was totally ignored and treated badly.
If not then whats the solution?
