Tuesday, May 30, 2023

LET IT GO!!!

There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this!
When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with
you, loving you, calling you, caring about you,
coming to see you, staying attached to you.

I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody who left.



People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means
that their part in the story is over.
And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over
so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over.

Let me tell you something.  I've got the gift of goodbye.
It's the tenth spiritual gift; I believe in goodbye.
It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know
whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat, I don't need it.

Stop begging people to stay.  Let them go!  If you are holding
on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never
intended for your life, then you need to LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains...
LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back,
and see your worth...LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you ... LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge
LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction...
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs
or talents... LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude...LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...
LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a
new level in Him... LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship.
LET IT GO!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help
themselves...LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed...
LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to
handling yourself and God is saying
"take your hands off of it," then you need to... LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past.  Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for this year!!!
LET IT GO!!!

Monday, May 29, 2023

why?

Why people today are getting egos bigger than their personalities...most of the people are so hung up on praise that they are far removed from reality and anybody reminding them about it becomes pariah...

Unless we take criticism in our stride we can never improve ourselves.I always think that whenever someone says anything negative, people start blaming that person only, instead of looking inward and trying to figure out whether there is some truth ..... most of the people behave irrationally with criticism...not many have the strength of character, yes thats what is required to take it in your stride....generally this is what happens....


Parents...as long as you keep telling them that they have done the best and they are always right, they are happy,the day you point the opposite...you are an ungrateful child, who doesnt even know how much parents suffered and all that.

Hubands...They always like to listen that they are god's gift to their wives, and as long as you pamper their ego, their stomach and their family..you are just great otherwise..god save you:)

Wives...Whatevr they may  get from their husbands, they are never thankful in anyway, its their good luck that they got it, but whatevr they are not getting, its not their bad luck or anything lacking in them but husband and his family is at fault.

Sisters:...just listen to them, their gossip,all the time, be their sounding board, morale booster and partner in crime..you are the best, the day you dare to speak your mind.the truth.you are doomed.

Brothers...They are really a god's gift to sisters, as is told to everyone from their childhood and they take it so seriously,that all the onus for maintaining status quo lies on sisters only......

children......do whatever they want you to do, have no mind of your own,and never ever ask for any protocol...you are greatest mother on earth, do the otherway......and you wouldnt find a place even below the earth.

Son.inlaws..They are the most indifferent lot..you dont exist as long as you dont interfere with their daily routine.though at the back of their minds too..MIl is dominating:)

Daughter-in-laws;..Pamper them silly, break you back doing everything for them, but the day you demand your share of love and respect..commanding and demanding comes into the picture and..you will become a monster.in.law.

What has family come to?

Whenever somebody says something negative about us..we must stop and think for a minute..may be he/she has some iota of truth....but if we surround ourselves with the people always praising us even if its not hundred percent true, then we are living in an illusion, we may be temporarily happy, but for long term happiness and growth we need to grow and learn the truth.and if need be there ,then change also.

Trip to Prague

 Since I am in Zurich this week I planned a visit to Prague, It is just one hour 20 minutes flight from here.we took a morning flight and reached there around 9 AM. It is a small and convenient airport. We had booked Hilton old town , so that it would be easy to roam around. From airport one can take taxi or public transport also. If one is staying there for 2-3 days , one can also take a pass for 48 hrs or more and it’s valid in all mode of transports.

In old town, there are many hotels and Hotel Paris and Hotel kings court are just next to tram station.

Prague is a city of majestic buildings, be it houses , commercial buildings or museums, all are grand buildings with statues and carvings, haven’t seen anyother European town like this. It’s so beautiful and maintained.

Old town square is huge and surrounded by cafe and restaurants, and all tourist buses, vintage cars , tram and hop n hop off tours. There main attractions are

Astronomical clock.. majestic structure and every hour, there is a parade of apostles on the clock

Old town hall.. it has an underground structure too but we didn’t go as as it was not advised to people who have back problem or heart problem.

Old Jewish quarters.. It’s a 10 minutes walk from the square.There are few synagogues and old cemetery with lots of graves and halls showing all their burial society history and paraphernalia and 2-3 room’ walls are inscribed with names of people perished there at the time of Jewish holocaust. It’s a very sad reminder.

Prague castle.. it’s 20 minutes drive. There they St vitas cathedral and royal palace and many gardens, must be the biggest castle in the world.one needs to walk miles to see it fully.

Charles Bridge.. it’s on Vitava river and near old town square only, one can see the city on both the sides and see the nicknacks there

Crystal is made there , so we found beautiful crystals product everywhere.

Billa supermarket is where one can buy everything specially water:)

Rest, it’s like any other European town full of designer shops, one IVKO, we found quite beautiful.

But here hop on hop off tour is useless, better take conducted tour.

We found Indian restaurant also.. Indian Kitchen and had lunch there, it was good.Checzk cuisine is all about duck,pork,beef, so not for us,so we had Italian or Mexican.







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