Seeing the people and marriages around me I have come to a conclusion that there are certain signals which tells us in advance that these people are not going to work together and we shouldn’t help them marry.. these traits are..
If before marriage girls demand expensive clothes, jewellery or honeymoon in Europe.. and here the criteria for expensive is not any absolute amount.. it’s your feeling according to your standard.. if u feel it .. then it is.. she is not going to jel with you.. let her go.she is not made for u.
And the same way if boys or in-laws demand anything.. be it money or things which you don’t want to give then better leave them.
If girls are into artificial equality too much.. leave them, they are not worth it.. they will never make u happy.Like some girls work and keep their salarary to them and expect husband to run house and spend on them and May be on their parents too.
So the first question both sides should ask what they are going to contribute to marriage
Will they share the expenses equally?
Will they share the housework equally?
How will they manage investments?
Who will do what?
One could take the help of marriage counselling also.Though we can’t have a guarantee about anything but still one must prepare well.
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