Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Tagged by Amrita

Amrita  tagged me with a real special one. This is totally a different one, let me see whether I am able to do justice to this one......

1.A writeup on a kind gesture that someone had done for you which left you speechless
I am the sort of person who feels touched by little little gestures,I never think of big things.I am specially touched when they are done by strangers...So that way there are many incidents in my life..
Once  i was waiting at a bus stop in NOida and many buses came and went and I couldnt get in, then a young boy who was coming after playing badminton, stopped a bus and waited behind me till I boarded..that is one incidence I can never forget.
I ran a shop in Noida and there was this boy Shailesh who worked with me, and after leaving Noida , I got a letter from him (he couldnt even write well)..telling me to call him as he couldnt work with anyone else...I dont know why but most of my maids and servants have loved me so much that at times I feel overwhelmed.


2.Indebted to someone lifelong..who??

I am indebted to God for giving me so wonderful people in my life, as through them I have experienced all shades of life..love and hurt both, as without getting hurt, one cant value love..Whenever I have made some strong assumptions that I will do like this in my life(..some idealistic aproach to life)..god has made me fall flat on my face, just to tell me how small I am to make such  assumptions.And then he only helps me in standing on my feet.
3.Want to say "sorry" to someone..who???
There may be many:)...as I am a typical saggi..blunt and truthful to the core BUT without any malicious bone in me....And thats the reason that most of the time I am misunderstood so much so that, I cant say that there is even one person in this world who understands me well.My feelings, my intentions are always misconstrued..but thru this post I would like to say sorry to each and everyone who felt hurt  as I never wanted anyone to be hurt.
I am just a righteous person without any ambiguity.I cant stand the wrongs.

4.Want to say "thank you" to someone ..who??
Now this is going to be a list like those in filmfare awards:)..I for one nevr forget any kind deed or actions so I am indebted to many, have patience to see the list:)
My grand parents...dada daadi..through them I leant the meaning of pampering,and unlimited love, and they only instilled in me the values of honesty and integrity thru their religious and mythological literature which I read with them.
My dad...he is the one who made me confident, thru him I learnt that..family is more important than money and kindness is biggest virtue..and your deeds are your security and safety in your life ..as god alsways repays you for them.
My mom...because of her only I knew that mothers love their children unconditionally and take all the crap children give them.
My sis..for being a friend and counseller both, for being my soundboard for everything, for just being there for me......
My BIL..for loving and respecting me like a sister..
My Bro..He has given my immense support in all spheres of life..stood like a rock..whenevr I have a problem, I go to him and he always assures me that he would take care of it and Thank my SIl for supporting him.
My husband..for being what he is..so supporting and liberated and having immense faith and confidence in me.
My son..:..for loving me , looking after me and making me feel loved, for being always there for me.
My daughter:...for loving me , looking after me and making me feel loved, for being always there for me.
MY DIl......for loving me.
MY SIL....for making my daughter happy.
blog friends..for giving a new dimension to my life.





5.And whats your most cherished possession till date??

I have reached that stage in my life where I dont cherish things but people..I have lost that feeling of possesions.
6.A special moment in life which brings along a smile every time you think of it.

There are many but I would like to share one..When I got married, we were in Ranchi and one day while walking through college road I saw a torquoise purse in a shop and said ..accha lag raha ha.na.....when on 30th my husband got his salary, he bought that purse and brought home:).I still have vivid memories of that purse.and till today whenever my husband and son are there, I never tell them what I like, because they will get it for me.:)

and now I would like to Tag..-

Deeps    Madhu   Starry   Chanz   PinsNashes  Nancy  Shrutz

12 comments:

SG said...

Nice happy memories to cherish lifelong.

SG said...

Looks like I have read your whole life history. Very inspiring.

nivedithasperceptions said...

Aww! :)
Damn nice! :)

Tara said...

thatw as a detailed one !!

Sparkling said...

Awwww...a heartfelt tag! :)

Turquoise purse? Wow! You like the bling, bling :p
(Am kidding! :))

Renu said...

SG:..yeah,its:)

Niveditatheperceptions: thanks:)

Tara:..I wanted to be just:)

Sparkling: no I really liked bling, even to a certain extent I still like:)
but that time I was just 19:)

Amrita said...

wowwwwww........sooooooo sweeeeeeeet of ur hubby. and yea we sagis are jus blunt on the face and have hearts of gold :D :D

very well executed tag Renu!

NRIGirl said...

Your thanking list brought tears to my eyes...

Thanks for sharing.

~ NRIGirl

Poonam J said...

Renu.....I so much relate to this post of yours..If I had been tagged I guess so much of the stuff you have written would have been me.

I read your Thanking list....and have this lump in my throat....Bless you Lady..celeberate your self.u deserve to.

Poonam J said...

Renu.....I so much relate to this post of yours..If I had been tagged I guess so much of the stuff you have written would have been me.

I read your Thanking list....and have this lump in my throat....Bless you Lady..celeberate your self.u deserve to.

Manasa said...

Lovely post..

so sweet of your hubby to buy that purse.. can imagine, how happy you would've been to see the same purse :)

Renu said...

Amrita:..Thanks my dear!...yeah we saggis are like that:)....my hubby and my son both bring everything I eye:) my daughter too, but she checks this also whether I really need it or not:)

NRIGirl: welcome here! and hope to see you more often.

PoonamJ;People of our generation..most of us have similar values..I dont remember but once or twice I tagged you, as I wanted to know your views, but i am lazy in informing.

Manasa: yeah..at that time I was very young also,so very much pleased.