If you want to make your parents happy you must do this.
This is the least you can do after what we have done for you.
Have you heard all these sentences? I hear all them all the time from so many people. Is it the way life has to be or should be?? NO..Everybody has one life even your children, so let them live independently. And blackmailing them with the sentence that their end is near so they should fully concentrate on them is again misleading because life and death both are very uncertain, nobody knows how long he/she is going to live whether young or old.
I see many parents outliving the children.so.We consider the parents children relationship very sacred and selfless but is that really so.I dont think so. In most of the families I see that parents are main reason for the conflicts in life.
I would never like to send my children on a guilt trip for anything and everything.I want them to fulfill their dreams and live a happy life.For me if they are happy, I am happy. I dont feel the need to call them for every little thing.Or make make me the centre of their life..No I am a part of their life and I want to remain there.
I feel that if parents have money, many problems can be solved by that,But if they dont have then children should provide for them but children shouldnt be asked to do the service of an attendant after a particular age.Yes its the duty of children to see that their parents get food, medicine ,clothes and all the care, but devoting 24 hrs to them is not good for children even..
Everyone needs to have a happy life to spread happiness all around.
In the next post i am going share some experiences about children being obsessed with their parents and the result of that:)