Monday, March 3, 2014

WOMEN'S DAY

women's day is around the corner and my simpleton hubby was asking me what is to be done:).I said that i believe in doing everything continuously instead of only one day, so I would suggest some ideas that I like and follow...

Give respect to women, irrespective of their age, caste, status and dress.

Listen to their opinions and problems..give them importance..

Help them whenever ou can...

If one is really interested in uplifting a woman then give them preference in daily life, like i always prefer to buy my vegetables from women vendor, shop at the places where women are managing it.

Really really treat daughters well...dont say that they are equal to sons..thats a way of saying that they are not good as daughters....

Say no to sex determination test and female foeticide.

Give them good education, freedom to choose their life, but good values too..women emancipation doesnt mean foregoing the family .....

Being an independent woman doesnt mean
 being like a man, but a woman with her own qualities and mind....
being arrogant and uncaring but being humble and affectionate..

Women are the backbone of any family and society, and when they become self centred, they disintegrate it.


12 comments:

Asha said...

Renu, this is a lovely ode to women! very well balanced!! There are men who respect women and there are women who disregard men. The world is made up of all sorts of people.
Happy women's day to you.

SG said...

I agree with everything except buying vegetables from women vendor. Please remember male vendor has a wife and 3 kids at home waiting for him to bring money so they can eat.

Rama Ananth said...

I fully agree with everything you have said. I also like if men open doors, give their seat n buses, pull the chair for the woman to be seated. All these gestures doesn't make an man small, it makes him more attractive.
At least the men in the armed forces still behave in this way with woman.
Of course this just my personal preference.

Rama Ananth said...

I fully agree with everything you have said. I also like if men open doors, give their seat n buses, pull the chair for the woman to be seated. All these gestures doesn't make an man small, it makes him more attractive.
At least the men in the armed forces still behave in this way with woman.
Of course this just my personal preference.

deeps said...

i guess it s applicable to all such 'days'!

Rhapsody said...

Women need to honor their selves more.

Renu said...

Asha: Thanks Asha..yeah, world is made of all sort, I keep trying to say the good things:)

SG: ^Thats the problem with trying to uplift a particular section..its like reservation which always hurts some..

Rama Ananth: I always like that chivalry and evrythinbg but then where are the women of that type..today's manly women who are arrogant dont deserve all that.

deeps: exactly..thats why everyday is women's day for me..

Rhapsody:agree.

Rahul Bhatia said...

Fully agree with your thoughts, Renu!

Salomie said...

Very well said. Especially like how you describe independent women.

Dilip said...

A beautiful theme indeed. All the points are perfect and I agree with you woman's day is not to be a one day affair but all days.
Cheers :)

Renu said...

Rahul Bhatia: Thanks Rahul!

Salomie:Thank u Salomie..I mean independence doesnt mean arrogance.

Dilip: Thank u !

Avada Kedavra said...

Agree with everything you said.