This one book I wanted to read for a long time and never knew that my daughter has it:) when I came here I started reading it. It is about the psychology of love,traditional values and spiritual growth.The writer is a psychiatrist , so he explores the ideas from every angle.

Few things I have always believed in and when I saw them written here, I loved, they are.....

Love is not simply giving, its judicial giving and judicial withholding.

True love leads to spiritual growth.and anything that doesnt make for growth is not true love.

Branding of quality time is not worth it, children need quantity time also.

Most of the problems of personality have their roots in childhood and relate to  parents.

Wherever we are in our life its always because of us not anybody else.

Many problems in life can be solved if delaying gratification is practiced,quoting the book.........delaying gratification is a process of scheduling the pain and pleasure of life in such a way as to enhance the pleasure by meeting and experiencing the pain first and getting it over with.

over all this is an awesome book and worth a two or three read:)

Serendipity..Ashok Ferrey
Story is based in srilanka in the days of turmoil, didnt find worth it...


SG said…
Judicial withholding (of love)? Why would anyone do that? Withhold love to punish someone? I do not understand.
Renu said…
SG:Yes unbridled love for anyone brings problems only..
deeps said…
of course yes, one of the nice books i have read...
try John Powell books also..

not sure why you arent getting my bloge updates!! some tecnical error maybe..pls re enter my blog link n try...
Avada Kedavra said…
sounds like an interesting book. My mom might like it, let me try to get hold of it.
Renu said…
deeps:Thanks for referring a book..I am laways in need of that:)

about the blog I will try it..

Avada Kevadra: Try will not be dissappointed..
Awesome post .i hope everybody will like your post

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