We often focus on trying to change an event or circumstance,
when we really need to change the habits that caused it.
Often bad things that happen to us have happened before.
If we change the pattern, we keep it from happening again.
Work on your habits if you want to change what's happening.
Above is a thought I read and realised that its so true.like..
We keep criticising govts. but what is govt..a conglomerate of people only and they are chosen by us, so we must do two things first, we should choose carefully, secondly whatever qualities we want to see in them, we must cultivate in ourselves..
Many girls criticise their in laws for the problems in their life, but they should realise that they themselves are either lazy or rude or miser or have not integrated themselves with their new family and if they change themselves they wouldnt have any stress in life from them, because most of the complaints are there for the lack of these qualities.
Many old women have problems with their DILs but they should realise that times have changed and so if they become non interfering and let the girls lead their own life..there woundnt be any dissent.
Here i am talking about people who want to be good in life and do good not those cruel selfish persons..for them there is no other way to life..